My second mother's day was wonderful. We invited the Taylors and Garmons to the Bunch's (our house) and Kevin made wonderful rib-eyes, mashed potatoes, corn, green beans and salad. Then we had a glorious mother's day cake from the village.
Ella and Kevin got me some great smelling lavender stuff for the bath and some other goodies.
There are so many things to write that could pertain to mother's day, but I will just sum it up by trying to make a list of things that are different/ I didn't know prior to being a mother - not things i never heard, but things I never REALLY knew until now:
-You can feel like you have more energy by being incredibly busy than when you had nothing to do but lay around and watch tv on the weekends
-It is not necessary to get an entire night's sleep to function during the day...even if it lasts for a year nonstop
-Some babies will not be able to sleep in their cribs alone. Cry-it-out does not apply to everyone.
-Some days the only thing you will get done is feeding / bathing / changing / chasing your baby. Yet you will not sit down once.
-Over all, having a baby can make you extremely happier than you were pre-baby. Even though I once heard a stat that people actually are less happy after having children...not me.
-Babies do not come pre-wired to understand the word "no."
-Sleep is overrated.
-It is possible to have a clean house and a baby. Just not every day.
-Babies do not magically make a marriage better or increase the romance. You have to consciously work to maintain your relationship.
-Things can happen to your body during pregnancy and childbirth that can completely transform your life and your ability to deal with it, but you will make it anyway.
-You will believe your baby has pertussis even if it is her 4th cold and she only has a runny nose....ok, maybe that's just me. ?
-For every bit of child-rearing advice, there is an equal and opposite bit of child-rearing advice
-You WILL have at least one room of your house that constantly looks like toys-r-us / a landfill.
-You will find a renewed joy in shopping when you can now buy everything you wish you could get away with wearing and (even better) in miniature sizes!
I could go on and on and on...
While I'm rounding out my mother's day post, I will thank my own mother for everything she has done in our lives. Most of all, I guess I would say my mom taught me and Whitney how to cherish our womanhood and stand up for ourselves. My mom never gave us speeches about woman power or "you can do anything you want to" necessarily because it was so obvious in her everyday life that she believed those things. She loves us passionately and without fail or even flinch, will be there to hear whatever we have to tell her, good or bad. Ultimately, she supports us and bails us out whenever needed. My mom kept a calendar of my entire first year of life, with notes on what I did EVERY DAY. I just saw this thing the other day and it was amazing. Not to mention, the loads of video and picture she diligently took to remember my growing up. She is the most efficient, dependable task-doer I have ever met. If I can't seem to get something done I think, "now how would mom do this and would she have procrastined this long??" and a lot of times it gets me off my seat. Next to my husband and my father, when I am scared or upset, I can't think of where else I would rather be except with my mom. I know she will be all these things and more to Ella as she grows up, too. Ella already calls out for her Nana regularly.